Littles in SL

Littles and AB/DL in SL is a little different than RL. No matter what your play is, you should have 18+ SL and RL age listed somewhere on your profile. If you play child and adult avatars on the same account (name) then be sure to make two tabs in your Picks tab of your profile with pictures of each so people know the difference between the two. i strongly disagree using the same account for both child and adult avatars! If your adult form goes to any adult sexual places or is a part of any adult orientated groups, you should not have a child avatar in that account. Create another account for your child avatar!

On the topic of child avatars..... Many Littles and AB/DLs get accused of being child avatars because their avatar dressing quite young looking. Sadly, if you get accused of being a child avatar, you might banned from the place you are at without being able to defend yourself that you aren't a child avatar. In some cases, depending on the person you could  have an Abuse Report filed upon you, which could lead your account to become permanently terminated and your IP address banned from SL. This is why it is so important to put 18+ SL and RL in your profile and ensure that your physical appearance without anything on represents that of an adults.

APPEARANCE
While everyone has their own unique style they prefer, a Little and an AB/DL must physically look like an adult. This means an adult skin and body shape. Most adult places have minimum avatar heights. To be on the safe side, i would be 1.65m or taller. It's ok if you want to be petite, make sure you look like an adult and not a child. This means boobs (many skin makers are making A cup skins), curves in the right places and general body shape of an adult. This website will help on the differant Female Body Shapes Same goes for males, if you are male then you should look like a male. As males mature into adulthood they get broader shoulders as well as a few other things.

Your skin must be that of an adults! Most Littles and AB/DLs think that they can get an adult shape and put it on a child skin. WRONG! This will get an Abuse Report filed on you for sexual ageplaying; a child avatar being involved in sexual situations.  With your adult body shape, you must also have an adult skin; meaning breasts, facial features of an adult, and genitals. Most AB/DLs do not want makeup and almost every major skin creator offers a "nude" version of their skins with no makeup. There are many innocent looking skins out there and most skin stores will also have shapes and eyes for you to buy. For innocent looking skins, try search for Japanese or kawaii skins; Sakurako, Cupcakes, Curio, Cherrygirl, Mother Goose's, and LittleGirl are very nice skin shops. Also a few stores have A cup skins and/or skin enhancements to their skins to make em look A cup: LAQ, Curio, Serrao Naughty Designs, Tuli and Pink Fuel.

As everyone, we have our own unique style of dress. Ovbiouslly most ABs prefer childish looking outfits and most DLs prefer more mature looking outfits. Mature looking outfits are easier to find. Childish outfits that fit adults are rather hard to find. Most prefer to go to  Larnia Kids, Lvs Kids, DC Products and lolita styles. No matter what look you are going for, keep in mind that all clothes made for kids are made for that body type so you will need to make sure you can modify them to fit your body.

CONTROL
Like in RL, you can give up control to what you wear, do and even what you say here in SL. Before i get into how you can give up control, you must be aware that the person or persons you are going to giving up control know of your limits. If they do not know of your limits, everyone involved may be put in an odd situation that is uncomfey for them. resulting in many possiabilities.

The below website is a very handy tool to help show people of your limits. Upon joining up, you will be asked to make a character. There are many, many kinks on their to say Favorite!, Yes, Maybe, No and NoSpecialPreferance. The NSP will not be viewed on your profile. If you have any questions on any one of the kinks it asks for, hover next to it and it will give a breif discription of what it is. It is highly reccomended that you post your limits list somewhere in your profile.
        Limits Website

Here in SL the system used to give up control is called Restrained Love Viewer (RLV). It takes a bit to set RLV up but once you do, it makes life a ton easier and BDSM in SL more real. Even though you may be giving up control to Dominants, it is a good idea to have someone you trust or an alt to be on your collar as a secondary owner in case something happens to bail you out. When people lock items on you, they are locked on you and you can not detach it! Be careful with who you give RLV powers to. Often enough, a collar plus an RLV Relay is used to do this. Below are the main collar scripts. Depending on your play and lifestyle should determine which one you use.
    Yuus/Nuu by Sneek
        made for child avies but works excellent for ABs & Littles
       LM: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Toys/209/231/37
    Amethyst Collar by Sensations
        made for submissives & slaves
        LM: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Sensations/147/152/48
    Dari's Haus Collar By Dari Haus
        made for submissives & slaves
       Where to Get: https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Daris-Haus-BDSM-Freebies/1512316
    OpenCollar by
        made for submissives & slaves
       LM: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Cisthene/8/80/3251
    Tokon by Xcite!
        made for submissives & slaves
        LM: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Eventide%20East/111/127/35?http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Eventide%20East/111/127/35

DIAPERS
Most AB/DLs want to wear a diaper. There are many out there to choose from. All come with a wet/mess system, are show/hidable, and a few features of their own, which are listed below.
    Pawzies
        frilly diaper (frills and ruffles can be hidden)
        "hold it or give in" accident feature
        many diaper and tape skins plus colors
        furry & hybrid friendly w/hidable tail tape
        LM: ?http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Seraphim/75/53/700http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Seraphim/75/53/700http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Seraphim/75/53/700http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Seraphim/75/53/700
    Cool diaper
        many rlv functions
        looks like your butt is inside it
        feeding system, which effects going potty
        LM: ?http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife//246/137/49http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife//246/137/49http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Ahndang/249/146/49
    DoD Diaper
        ultra big
        ultra embarrising
        fart and pee on command
        LM: ?http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Isle%20of%20Destiny/211/243/751
    Keiki Korner's Diaper
        non-scripted
        clothing layer
        will always fit
        demo version aviable
        ideal to wear instead of panties if your outfit doesn't permit your diaper to show (hide it and wear this if you want it shown you are wearing a diaper)
        only aviable on Marketplace: https://marketplace.secondlife.com/stores/27197
    Training Panties
        ultra slim
        ment for those who want to play out getting potty trained
        interactive training game for the wearer and Caretaker
        many designs
        rlv
        LM: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Ahndang/249/146/49