Tips on How to Find a PYOT...

    Bet you are saying "Huh? PYOT?" PYOT is a term from chat rooms that means Pick Your Own Title. Since there are sooo many different roles everyone is looking for, it would take forever to list em all. i get asked this question a ton and have put together several tips on how to find that special someone to complete you.*

* Don't be shy! The hangout places are there for you to be yourself. No need to hide.
* Set your diapers for a realistic time between going potty. (1 hour minimum )
* Make yourself able to change your diapers. No one wants to hear all the time "Can you change me?"
* Hang out & meet lots of folks. Make friends first!
* Be honest with self and others in what you want.
* Don't start looking until you are ready to find it. Often the best PYOT comes to you when you arn't looking.
* Learn from your past, but leave it behind.
* Avoid drama & desperation. If you become too desperate, people won't want to talk to you if the first thing out of your mouth or the first few times you meet a person is "Can you be my PYOT?".
* Set the bar high...you are worth it
* Put yourself out there if you are interested
* Don't settle for just anyone. Save yourself the pain of breakups
* Be yourself and find one who loves you as is. Don't change yourself just to please someone else. Be You!
* Take it slow...don't jump to collaring/partnering
* Do a trial period...if it isn't right...admit it early (Check back later for a post on trial periods.)
* When it is right...Give it your all..be true & happy
* You get back what you put in...Embrace it!

So what are these hangout places i speak of?


AB ONLY
        AB Wonderland
                A great place to hang out, play or just listen to the music. All species accepted! Fur, human, hybrid ect.. everyone is welcome. Also houses a few shops that offer products specially made for ABs! Must join the group before entering! Group joiner is on a white poster to the left of the gates.

        Gall Daycare
                One of SL's oldest daycare and AB hangouts. This is a daycare RP so if you are little please act little thus  No Scripted weapons, No swearing, No Yiffing, NO DRAMA, NO SEXUAL PLAY, ATTACHMENTS OR BEING NAKED!

       Peppermint Playhouse
                  A daycare specially for Littles and ABs! There's plenty of toys to play with, friendly staff and a place where you can just relax and be yourself. Must join the group before entering! Group joiner is on a white poster to the left of the gates.

        Ghost Horse Corral
                NO sexual play at all. A few rules... No weapons (toy ones are oki like foam darts, just keep it realistic), No sexual stuff, Have fun, Don't discirminate due to someones physical appearance  gender, attitude or behavoir.

      Rosey Cheeks
                No sexual play at all and must remain clothed at all times. Spanking hangout first. If you don't like spanking, don't TP!

       Club Spank
                Sexual nudity only allowed in skyboxes. Fantastic "kids room" for play. Be sure to lock the skyboxes if you are going to use them. No sexual acts on the main floor. Spanking hangout first. If you don't like spanking, don't TP!                  
   
    MAINLY DL
        Missy's Place
                Neat little club for DLs to gather and play in a safe environment.


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* Thank you Cozee for compiling many of the tips. Big kudos!

If you have other tips you think would help others, please leave a comment below