Friday, April 5, 2013

Look of the Hour - ROSY MOOD

Recently i re-discovered a cuute store for hair called Rosy Mood. They have both mesh and non-mesh styles for the kawaii cutie inside you! Below are a few of my favorite styles from them. Don't worry about demo stamp that Lyra has. When you buy em, the demo stamp is gone. :)

Canon Hair

Chouchou Hair

Lyra Hair - MESH

Xia Mei Hair




Credits:

ALL HAIRS ARE BY ROSY MOOD
Skin : Sweetheart - Danika Designs
Glasses:  No. 71-  December
Eyes: Liquid Light eyes (Deep Majorelle) - Mayfly
Earrings: Cupcake Earrings - Turducken
Collar: Kitty Collar - Moys! Toys
Pacifier: Sweet Pacifier 6 Colors - Sweet Baby
Collared Top: Sugar Cute Tops in Soda - Honey Kitty
Dress: Katty Dress (yellow/lavender/corn) - Katat0nik

Sunday, March 17, 2013

Tips on How to Find a PYOT...


    Bet you are saying "Huh? PYOT?" PYOT is a term from chat rooms that means Pick Your Own Title. Since there are sooo many different roles everyone is looking for, it would take forever to list em all. i get asked this question a ton and have put together several tips on how to find that special someone to complete you.*

* Don't be shy! The hangout places are there for you to be yourself. No need to hide.
* Set your diapers for a realistic time between going potty. (1 hour minimum )
* Make yourself able to change your diapers. No one wants to hear all the time "Can you change me?"
* Hang out & meet lots of folks. Make friends first!
* Be honest with self and others in what you want.
* Don't start looking until you are ready to find it. Often the best PYOT comes to you when you arn't looking.
* Learn from your past, but leave it behind.
* Avoid drama & desperation. If you become too desperate, people won't want to talk to you if the first thing out of your mouth or the first few times you meet a person is "Can you be my PYOT?".
* Set the bar high...you are worth it
* Put yourself out there if you are interested
* Don't settle for just anyone. Save yourself the pain of breakups
* Be yourself and find one who loves you as is. Don't change yourself just to please someone else. Be You!
* Take it slow...don't jump to collaring/partnering
* Do a trial period...if it isn't right...admit it early (Check back later for a post on trial periods.)
* When it is right...Give it your all..be true & happy
* You get back what you put in...Embrace it!

So what are these hangout places i speak of?


AB ONLY
        AB Wonderland
                A great place to hang out, play or just listen to the music. All species accepted! Fur, human, hybrid ect.. everyone is welcome. Also houses a few shops that offer products specially made for ABs! Must join the group before entering! Group joiner is on a white poster to the left of the gates.

        Gall Daycare
                One of SL's oldest daycare and AB hangouts. This is a daycare RP so if you are little please act little thus  No Scripted weapons, No swearing, No Yiffing, NO DRAMA, NO SEXUAL PLAY, ATTACHMENTS OR BEING NAKED!

       Peppermint Playhouse
                  A daycare specially for Littles and ABs! There's plenty of toys to play with, friendly staff and a place where you can just relax and be yourself. Must join the group before entering! Group joiner is on a white poster to the left of the gates.

        Ghost Horse Corral
                NO sexual play at all. A few rules... No weapons (toy ones are oki like foam darts, just keep it realistic), No sexual stuff, Have fun, Don't discirminate due to someones physical appearance  gender, attitude or behavoir.

      Rosey Cheeks
                No sexual play at all and must remain clothed at all times. Spanking hangout first. If you don't like spanking, don't TP!

       Club Spank
                Sexual nudity only allowed in skyboxes. Fantastic "kids room" for play. Be sure to lock the skyboxes if you are going to use them. No sexual acts on the main floor. Spanking hangout first. If you don't like spanking, don't TP!                  
   
    MAINLY DL
        Missy's Place
                Neat little club for DLs to gather and play in a safe environment.


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* Thank you Cozee for compiling many of the tips. Big kudos!

If you have other tips you think would help others, please leave a comment below

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Danika Designs - Skins

    Danika Designs has recently become one of my favorite stores for skins. They have 6 skins right now, each in 6 skin tones. Each skin pack comes with not 1 skin but 8 skins! There are 4 cup sizes to choose from; A-D cup. No more looking like you have giant breasts when yours are small or vise-versa! Another great feature with these skins is that say you have a mesh (or sculpted) "bits" for between the legs, there is a version of each cup size that has no detail between the legs making blending the skin tone for your "bits" so much easier. Also it's helpful for that that don't want to have anything between the legs.

i fell in love with their skin Sweetheart so all of the pictures are of this one skin in Cream Dream, their palest skin tone.

    Here is a face shot of the skin, shape and eyes that come in the skin package.



A full body shot of the skin with the included shape. This is the A cup "Barbie" version.



A close up shot of the "Barbie" feature. For the sake of the blog, i will not show the regular version. Sure you 
all know what it looks like.



As i said there are 4 cup versions of the skin included in the pack.







Also included in the skin pack are 3 modifiable  shapes!




Come and check out this skin, shape and eyes combo pack and more by the amazing Danika Designs at their shop! Demos are free to try so what are you waiting for? Also there are some pretty neat clothes here too. 


Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Proportionate Body Shapes

Nothing annoys me more than when i see an avatar that isn't proportionate to its self. i found this wonderful blog post and been using it for quite a while. Enjoy the read everyone.

This began as a re-phrasing of a guide posted on the old official forums by Penny Patton, but has taken off from there with my own thoughts and style. The forums have a habit of disappearing or getting buried, so I wanted to make a blog post with the same general advice. I know, only in SL would anyone consider a blog to have more viability of lasting than the actual official forum…
That said, it appears others have been at this even longer than either Penny or I, but with a bit of a different take.
Apart from the issue of proper height in Second Life, over which there is oddly no agreement… most avatars in Second Life have grossly improper proportions.
Proportions are not something you can really debate – you’ve either got them right or you’ve got them wrong and its basic anatomical science over which you have.
But in SL so few people have any artistic or medical training, and the dials for avatar shape editing are grossly improperly adjusted. Proper proportions can often only be achieved by values of under 10 or over 90… if at all. Put simply whoever made the mesh we’re all stuck with had even less artistic training than a pack of kindergarteners. There are ‘free’ meshes in the 3D community that do a better job.
Having good proportions will make your avatar look -AND- animate better. Any motion capture animations in SL were made by… more likely humans than Orangutans or Lemurs. I don’t know… I could be wrong, but I’m going to just guess that the average motion capture studio hires human dancers and not the zoo crew. So if you have human proportions, you’ll animate a little more like the motion capture itself intended (barring the limits of the badly put together SL mesh).
So its time to learn how to ‘dial away from 50′ and get an avatar that looks regardless of height chosen.
You’re going to want to do a few basic things first. Get yourself a pose stand with a T-Pose and an arms at sides pose. You can get my free one at my shop or on Marketplace. Get on it, and go into preferences here and un-check the box for appearance:
Un-check Appearance on the Automatic Position Section.
That will let you switch between appearance editing and prim editing without hopping off the posestand or having your camera move. You can always recheck the box later if desired.
(A careful observer will notice that my avatar started these screenshots slightly out of proportion, and I improve as I work my way down.)
Start by learning your head size:
Head Sized Prim
Take off your hair. Make a prim and size it to be from your chin to the top of your head. Be as accurate as you can be – but human variety is often slightly off of perfection, so don’t sweat too fine of details.
Now find out how many heads tall you are. Take that same prim and copy clone it down until you go past your feet:
7.5 Heads of Height.
You want to be between 7 and 8 heads tall, For a short look you can reach down to 6 or 6 and a half – though you will start looking odd in doing this (and this is not the proper way to make someone who has naturally short stature – that would take more complex adjustments of the SL dials than simply counting heads). Attractive people tend to be closer to 8 heads – even short attractive people, but by contrast Asians who are often considered attractive tend to be on the lower end of the scale. Going above 8 can make you look cartoonish – and on the SL mesh, usually in a bad way. Make your head bigger or smaller until this works out right for you.
The hardest part comes next and it is likely to cause you to have to redo some of the above a few times until it is all just right. Now we need to get your ratio of torso-legs right. Your legs should be half of your height.
Start by finding your current height. Take a prim and stretch it from the soles of your feet to the tip of your head:
Avatar Height
Now cut that prim in half. If you place the new half prim so it starts at the soles of your feet, you want it to reach to your crotch. Good luck because this almost never happens on the first try.
Now stack a copy of it on top. The top prim should go from your crotch to the top of your head. Sounds easy, but adjusting everything until this works well, takes work.
You need to keep tweaking until you have two equal prims that meet at your crotch. Yes that really is the focal point of the human body and not just because guys keep staring at it:

In tweaking this you’re going to be working with neck length, leg length, and hip length for the most part. Height will adjust overall body height. Torso height may or may not adjust your upper half, it worked for me but I’ve read that it doesn’t work. You can also adjust head size, but do that and you have to start the entire process over again.
Be careful not to give yourself a funny squashed or swan neck. It will be tempting as its one of the easier dials to use to get the ratio right.
Now you should find your body width. Take that head prim and stack a copy of it side by side. Put them over your body:
Body Width
You should be 2 heads wide from arm to arm.
You can see I’m a little thin here.
Keep in mind here that males have broader shoulders than females. For a man adjust shoulders slightly up, for a woman slightly down. Avoid the comical extreme seen on so many SL men. If you ask SL women what makes an attractive male, those extremes are not him (The Bishounen look seems to get the most female interest – if you want to be a lady’s man, go Bishounen with a dapper stylish outfit and use cool artsy backdrops in your screenshots for extra ‘drooling’ factor – just look at any Vampire TV show these days, the lead boys all have Bishy-bodies).
Next comes hand size. One of the major ‘lol’ issues with SL men is tiny hands… How can you tell a noob shape or noob shape maker – look at the hands first. In my screenshots I’m taking off my furry paws for a moment here so you can see this how most of you will deal with it:
Hand Size
You will want your hand from the base of your palm to the tips of your fingers to be the same size as the distance between your chin and midway between your brows and ‘hairline’. I’m guessing my hairline on this one. Again men have slightly thicker hands and women slightly daintier – but use extreme care in deviating here: the hand size slider doesn’t adjust for thick / width / muscle, just size all around. A little bit goes a long way.
Now comes your arm length (wingspan). This is the spot where most of you will revolt and call all this human anatomy stuff bat-crazy nonsense. Your arms from finger tip to finger tip when stretched out in a T-pose, should be the same length as the height of your body. It will look utterly crazy for about 3-5 minutes after you hit save and walk around – but as soon as you ‘get over SL’ for a moment you’ll blink and suddenly realize you look ‘human’ for the first time ever in SL, and then you’ll start noticing all the T-rex people around you. If you just can’t handle the new arm length, dial it down a tiny bit. But chances are this step took your arms to 90-100. If so, don’t go down by more than 10.
Arm Length - Wingspan
Finally do your feet for when barefoot. Make the feet the same size as the length of your forearm. Obviously if you use rigged mesh feet, you’ll be out of luck on this one – but if those feet “look normal enough” this is one area where you can probably get by being a little off.
This should not be correct at foot size 0, but it was for me. I have no idea why. That’s your foot size when barefoot. Save this prim under a name like ‘Shoe Size’ in inventory and use it to size any shoes you buy. Making shoes you buy just a little bigger as if they had to fit a foot that size inside them. That’s the real reason to do this last step – to find your shoe size. In my opinion the SL bare-feet look horrid no matter what size you give them…
Foot Size
(The SL foot slider just makes them longer, without making the sole or toes thicker, so feet at proper length actually often look worse than smaller feet – a good argument for going shopping to buy some of those rigged mesh feet. If you noticed the screenshots with darker skin, my 2013 avatar, getting mesh feet is exactly what I have now done.)
Now you can get to work and perfect things like body fat, muscle, facial features, and so on to get a desired look.
The SL Avatar Dials and what they do:
(Credit for this goes to What the Fug? – Shaping Up – A Shapes Tutorial: Part 2)
Body
Height – adjusts your overall height
Body Thickness – adjusts the relative width of your body
Body Fat – adjusts all-over body fat
Head
Head Size – adjusts the overall size of your head
Head Stretch – stretches your head vertically.
Head Shape – makes your head more square or more round
Egg Head – adjusts your head to be forehead-heavy versus chin-heavy
Head Length – stretches your head from the back of your head to the front of your face
Face Shear – lifts one side of the face versus the other
Forehead Angle – adjusts the slope of your forehead
Brow Size – adjusts the size and protrusion of your brow
Upper Cheeks – adjusts the puffiness of your upper cheeks
Lower Cheeks – adjusts the hollowness of your lower cheeks
Cheek Bones – adjusts the height of your cheekbones
Eyes
Eye Size – adjusts the overall size of your eyes
Eye Opening – adjusts the vertical opening of your eyes
Eye Spacing – adjusts the space between your eyes
Outer Eye Corner – lifts and lowers the outer corners of your eyes
Inner Eye Corner – lifts and lowers the inner corners of your eyes
Eye Depth – adjust the depth at which your eyes are sunk into your head
Upper Eyelid Fold – lifts and lowers your upper eyelid
Eye Bags – lowers the “bags” under your eye
Puffy Eyelids – adjusts the puffiness of your eye bags
Eyelash Length – adjusts the system eyelash length (set to “0″ for prim lashes)
Eye Pop – adjusts the “pop” of either eye.
Ears
Ear Size – adjusts the size of your ears
Ear Angle – adjusts the angle from which your ears stick out from your head
Attached Earlobes – adjusts your earlobes to be attached to your head, or have some separation
Ear Tips – adjusts the tips of your ears to be pointed or not
Nose
Nose Size – adjusts the size of your nose, extending it out from your face
Nose Width – adjusts the width of your nose at tip mostly
Nostril Width – adjusts the width of your nostrils
Nostril Division – adjusts the length of your septum
Nose Thickness – adjusts how bulbous your nose is
Upper Bridge – adjusts the length out from your face of your nose between your eyes
Lower Bridge – adjusts the length out from your face of your nose above your nose tip
Bridge Width – adjusts the width of your nose between and just below your eyes
Nose Tip Angle – adjusts the upturn ot downturn of your nose
Nose Tip Shape – adjusts the size/shape of your nose tip to be pinched or bulbous
Crooked Nose – adjusts your nose to be shifted from one side to another
Mouth
Lip Width – adjusts the overall width of your mouth
Lip Fullness – adjusts the size/fullness of your lips
Lip Thickness – adjusts the protrusion/puffiness of your lips
Lip Ratio – adjusts the ratio of lower lip to upper lip
Mouth Position – adjusts the position of your mouth vertically
Mouth Corner – adjusts the corners of your mouth to be upturned or down turned
Lip Cleft Depth – adjusts the depth of your lip cleft (the indentation beneath your septum and the points of your upper lip on either side)
Lip Cleft – adjusts the width of your lip cleft
Shift Mouth – shifts your mouth position from left to right
Chin
Chin Angle – adjusts your chin to be drawn in or jut out
Jaw Shape – adjusts your jaw to be pointed or squared
Chin Depth – adjusts the depth (or height) of your chin
Jaw Angle – adjusts the height of your jawline
Jaw Jut – adjusts your “under bite”
Jowls – adjusts your jawline to give it more or less “jowls” (cheek sag)
Chin Cleft – creates a cleft in your chin
Upper Chin Cleft – gives your chin a more square appearance
Chin-Neck – adjusts the underneath of your chin to be more or less saggy
Torso
Torso Muscles – adjusts your all-over torso to have a more or less bulky appearance
Neck Thickness – adjusts the thickness/width of your neck
Neck Length – adjusts the length/height of your neck
Shoulders – adjusts how broad your shoulders are
(F)Breast Size – adjusts the size of your breasts
(F)Breast Buoyancy – adjusts the gravitational “sag” of your breasts
(F)Breast Cleavage – adjusts your cleavage, moving your breasts closer together or further apart
(M)Pectorals – adjusts the size/protrusion of a man’s pectoral muscles
Arm Length – adjusts the length of your arms
Hand Size – adjusts your hand size
Torso Length – adjusts the length of your torso (this does not affect height)
Love Handles – adjusts the thickness of your waist
Belly Size – adjusts the size of your belly (useful for creating a pregnant shape)
Legs
Leg Muscles – adjusts your legs to give them a more or less bulky appearance
Leg Length – adjusts the length of your legs
Hip Width – adjusts the width of your hips and creates space between your thighs
Hip Length – adjusts the length of your hips/butt
Butt Size – adjusts the size of your butt (abuse of this slider leads to “watermelon ass”)
(M)Package – adjusts the size of a man’s crotch bulge
Saddle Bags – adjusts the “thickness” of your hips
Knee Angle – can be used to give one a more or less knock-kneed appearance
Foot Size – adjusts the size of one’s feet

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Customizing Your Wettable Bed or Crib

i got asked last weekend how someone could put in their favorite animation into the Wettable Bed or Crib sold by Absolute Bratz. As it turned out the animation was No Transfer so i had to step-by-step help them out with it. Maybe there is a favorite animation you would love to add into your Wettable Bed or Crib?

Here are the step-by-step instructions!
   * Rezz out your bed or crib and edit it.
   * Find your animation in your inventory.
   * Drag and drop the animation into the Content
   * Inside the Content window will be a whole bunch of notecards labeled Set:.... Drag and drop one of those notecards into your inventory.
   * In your inventory, rename the notecard to Set: My Anims:AnimationNameHere
   * Open up the notecard and it will look like this... ANIM|Scrunched|<-0.387909, 0.522896, -0.298950>|<-4.997944, 0.002022, -95.620190>|
   * Replace the part after ANIM| with the name of your animation. Be sure to keep the | in there though or it won't work.
   * Save the notecard.
   * Drag n drop this new notecard back in the Content tab of your Bed or Crib.
   * Wait a few minutes for the new notecard to show up in the Content tab.
   * Unedit your bed or crib.
   * Sit on your bed and select the animation you just added in.
   * Touch your bed or crib and get up the main menu.
   * Go to admin
   * Hit Adjust. A prim with different colored faces will appear.
   * Edit this prim to the desired position of your new animation.Your avatar will move with it.
  * A whole bunch of numbers will appear in local chat, ignore them.
   * Once it is in the desired position, touch your bed again to get the main menu.
   * Go into admin again and hit PosDump.
   * This will make the bunch of numbers appear again. Copy that line of text.
   * Edit the bed or crib again and go into the Content tab.
   * Find your animation notecard and open it up.
   * Paste the string of text you jsut copied. Be sure to take out everthing in front of the ANIM part.
   * Save the notecard and wait a few minutes.
   * Get out of edit mode and bring up the main menu again.
   * Go into admin and hit StopAdjust. This will make the multi colored prim go away.
THATS IT!

i've spoken a little about my little thing about holding my pee in for as long as i can (ill post more about it later. It's nearing bedtime for me) annnd i used some animations from a HUD to recreate this wonderful experience here in SL. The HUD is called Enjoy Yourself On Your Tummy and can be found easily on Marketplace. Well it's used for masturbation but is sooo realistic to how one would look like squirming about to hold in their pee, specially numbers 1-3. After number 3 it is quite obvious that you are humping the floor so best to keep those out of the bed. Here's a lovely picture of one of the many many animations you can put into your bed YOURSELF to suit you. Please be warned that you can not put sexual animations into a crib or anything that looks like a childs furniture or play piece as this is against the TOS.


Look of the Hour - Maddie Creations

This store is quite neat. Maddie Creations offers not only clothes but also furniture and a few accessories for yourself too. My favorite thing by em is their brand new Texture Change Mesh Nightgown. This nightgown is like the ultimate of nightgowns cos it switches to 6 unique nightgowns all themed perfectly for that babygirl in you.


melly is wearing:
          * Nightgown - Texture Change Nightgown - Maddie Creations - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Dream/124/246/502
          * Hair: Velvet in Cranberry - Truth - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Truth%20Hair/106/85/25
          * Mittens & Booties - Mittens & Booties - Absolute Bratz - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Crispin/110/45/1502
          * Skin: Curio - Meadow Pure Light in Petal -http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Curio/188/100/35
          * Earrings - Cupcake Earrings - Turducken - Cupcake  - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Turducken/112/121/24
          * Eyeshadow: Flyin' High Shadow - (AG) - https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Ag-Spring-Pastels-Shadow-Pack/2214612
          * Eyes: Mayfly - Liquid Light eyes (Deep Majorelle) - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Noul/201/135/651
           * Eyebrows: Curio - Meadow Brows Ginger - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Curio/188/100/35
           * Glasses: December - No. 71-  http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Undulosa/209/94/605
           * Face Sparkles: Turducken - Face Sparkles-http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Turducken/112/121/24

Look of the Hour - Teeter Tots

Okis so i change clothes a lot soooo here is the first of sooo many Look of the Hour posts! Yay! The very first post highlights one store from the AB/DL community that's been around for many years, Teeter Tots! This store features both clothes for adults and clothes for kids. They are made so you can wear a diaper under it perfectly and show it off, if you like to. :)


melly is Wearing:
          * Outfit: Ariel Dress, Paci & Shoes - Teeter Tots - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Falcaria/142/120/100
          * Diaper: DCD Diaper - Teeter Tots - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Falcaria/142/120/100

          * Hair: Shooting Star (Pink) -  Love Soul - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Love%20Soul/210/75/27
          * Skin: Curio - Meadow Pure Light in Petal - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Curio/188/100/35
          * Earrings - Cupcake Earrings - Turducken - Cupcake  - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Turducken/112/121/24
          * Eyeshadow: Flyin' High Shadow - (AG) - https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Ag-Spring-Pastels-Shadow-Pack/2214612
          * Eyes: Mayfly - Liquid Light eyes (Deep Majorelle) - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Noul/201/135/651
           * Eyebrows: Curio - Meadow Brows Ginger - http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Curio/188/100/35
           * Glasses: December - No. 71-  http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Undulosa/209/94/605
           * Face Sparkles: Turducken - Face Sparkles- http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Turducken/112/121/24
           * Paci: Binkeeze - Sisters Forever - https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/b-sisters-forever-willow-wisps-binky-box/1726295